“Let me explain something to you about the responsibility of having sex. I understand that you want to get it on and be very physical due to your hormones raging out of control. But most women see sex differently than men. Your girlfriend loves you she was still googly-eyed yesterday while I was cussing you both out.
If you are having sex with her without your heart in it, then do her a favor and stop immediately.” She traveled over here to see you and displayed every action indicating she is very interested in you. “What do you mean my heart, Mom? What are you talking about?” he said. “Women take men “IN” we hold you FIRM and try not to let you go. Do you understand that statement? Women are sensitive creatures who, for the most part, have a direct connection between the vagina and their heart. It is your responsibility as a man to spend your time with those you want to really spend your time with. I don’t want you being a man just slinging your thing at every hole that comes your way. It hurts us to know that we have let you “IN” yet, you never wanted to be there for more than that moment. I hope you are thinking about her heart, or anyone else’s for that matter, before you give them your penis.” Sex should couple emotion and love it should be done with thought. Then he said, “I love her, but I didn’t tell her yet.” His attitude during the conversation went from laughing nervously to being pensive. I am not all over the place it’s not my way, Not everyone can get this.” He said as he walked away I will be disappointed if I spent all this time acting like Mother Teresa around you to find out you are an ultimate whore.” “Ok, well, if you love her, treat her with kindness and use thought.
It was the first conversation I had with him about feelings and what to do with them and how to manage them with sex. After I spoke to him, I felt like this should have been something I spoke about all along as I do with my daughter. Raising thoughtful young men who are sexually responsible creates men who have a slimmer chance of treating women like a pieces of meat.
In a perfect world, he would take that information and be the best boyfriend/husband the world has ever seen, full of compassion and romantic gestures, sweetly in love with his partner. That is what I wish for him.“Keep an eye on the faun,” Anthony said, clambering down from the oxcart. It was nearly dusk, though the heavy canopy of the forest had plunged us into near-dark for most of the day.